There is only love. This sounds like a cliché but it is not. What appears to be a loss is not a loss at all.
Yes, we must grieve but the point of grief is to open our heart, to break our hearts open.
All of your suffering and trauma is a choice by your soul. I know this for sure. I have lived it.
When you can own this in consciousness, you are suddenly free!
But how do you own this? How do you take charge of your own consciousness?
It is your conditioned mind that causes all of your suffering.
The conditioned mind is programmed
with beliefs about yourself that
are not true; however, you have been
living as if they are true~ Beliefs such as:
“I can’t live without him” “I can’t be an artist” “I have to earn a living” “I am damaged” “I am a survivor” “I am disconnected from God” “I am alone and no one loves me” “I am unlovable” “I don’t deserve his love” “My ideas are stupid” “I can have success but not love” “I can have love but not success” “My body is ugly”
“I’m not sexy” “I feel no passion” “I hate my life” “Others are more important” “Others have the answers for me” “I can’t afford to live the life I want” “I must earn love” “I must always compromise”.. and on and on!
Do any of these beliefs sound familiar to you at all? The voice in the head is something we all share.
When my clients first come to me they describe their thoughts as if they ARE there thoughts.
My job is to open up the space for them to see that they are not their thoughts.
However, some of the thoughts must be treated with tender loving care. Actually, all of them must be. Thoughts become things. However, sometimes a thought can’t simply be ‘deleted’ because that thought carries with it the Heartbreak of our Soul, which must be felt and realized in order to reclaim the Calling of our Soul.
Heartbreak, however, doesn’t need to take long to feel and transform. The days of ‘years of analysis’ are over! The days of talking the story out again and again are over!
Where the work happens is in the moment. This moment. What are you thinking right now? Where are you focused right now?
Are you focused upon the past? Are you focused upon a feeling? Are you focused upon a story in your head? Pick one!
Is your focus causing a feeling of lightness or a feeling of heaviness?
Your focus determines everything.
You must understand the difference between whether or not the focus that causes heaviness can be quickly shifted by you or if you need to explore the cause of your habitual focus onto that ‘story’.
Once this is done, you can now choose what you want to focus upon because the old story no longer has an emotional pull or hook for you. You have felt the heartbreak of believing something that is not true.
Now, you are free to experience the wonder and joy of your Soul’s Calling! Your soul’s calling, not someone else’s opinion of what your calling should be.
Your passion is your nature. The flowers are passionate to bloom! They do not have beliefs that tell them it is not safe, or their blossom won’t be good enough, or they will stand out among the other flowers as ugly or weak or faded.
But we do have those beliefs!
Yay for us! Why yay? Because it is through transforming those beliefs while at the same time knowing your nature is as pure as the flower’s that you evolve your Soul and tap into the passion at the root of who you are.
Only then can you manifest your true purpose because only then can you feel it.
You see, your purpose rides on the waves of Joy, Peace, and Love for your life and for life.
If I have said here resonates with you, and you have a strong
desire to be radically present, I am now
accepting new clients~
Just email me directly at nancy@choosingselflove.com
I am expecting you!
Nancy
































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